BEING A BITCH

Time I decided to be a bitch.

I’m tired of everyone walking over me. I’m gonna be that bitch who shakes up the room. Demands attention. Demands respect. Fearless. Strong-minded. Confident. Uncomparoable. One of a kind. Unique. Powerful. Feisty. Bossy. Sick of being pushed about and sick about being pushed down. I want to still be a good girl’ but also a bad chick. People done put the good out of me and treated for shit too long. Back on my sarcasm. Back on my sassiness. Get angry how you were poorly treated. Unstoppable. A force not to be reckoned with. I am the bully now coming to bite back. Make my sparkle burn their eyes lol. Literally. She bad bad. Time I was a little aggressive. Brought that inner lion out of me. People I do not fear. People need to fear me and god. Flip my hair with attitude. People not about to play with me. I’m unmessable. I’m not just a girl whos just pretty. I am not boring. I am a wild spirit. Big ego. Loud. Outspoken. A fighter. I’m a boss. A queen who deserves to give herself a lot of love and care and putting herself first. And some men can’t handle a bad bitch so they go for something less than you. Bitches better get ready to bow down. I am a hard person. A diva. A hurricane. Demanding. I have a powerful walk. It’s a catwalk bitch style. People done took the wolf and beast outta me/

STRESS-CAUSERS

Sources of personal stress:

Certain family members

Looking at people’s instagram and social media feeds and comparing

Wondering why this or that guy didn’t like your photo but other bitches

Wondering why a guy likes your best friend or your friends more than you and talking to them and giving them attention

LinkedIn and seeing people on vacation schemes I applied for and didn’t pass

Caring to see who liked your photos on Instagram etc

Running after people and giving a fuck about their problems

Overthinking what you posted on social media platforms like on the stories function

Doubting yourself and your abilities

Seeking validation from other people

Caring who looks at you in public

Expecting people to like or agree with what you like and shared etc

Putting other people and their needs first

Dirty, uncleaned and messy room

Uni assignments

Needing people’s attention and compliments and likes and to see my worth

Thinking about and interacting with those dickheads from school days

Anyways. See people from school days, they are so ugly. Basic makeup skills. They fat. They ain’t doing exactly amazing in life. They wear fake tan and have horrible nails. They still insecure and nothing particularly amazing about them and they have babies now. They ain’t actual shit. Like, they’re all boring and basic. They still fake to one another and look like witches. They’re trash. Their basic. They’re ugly. They’re boring. They ain’t goals. They really ain’t shit. In the most humblest way; I look down upon them and laugh at how fat and ugly they are now. Actual state of them all now man. Yuck. Disgusting. Laughable. Assholes.

WHY PEOPLE ARE SHIT 🖕

I really do not like people these days. They make you feel very insecure and they don’t compliment you or they just ignore you or act very weird towards you. I cannot stand people like that at all. It gets to my confidence and my happiness. People are not shit man; they really aren’t. They are annoying. They be jealous. They be hating. They be annoyed at me. People are just not happy with themselves and have a sense of humour. People try to make you feel less than and make you feel like you’re not worthy or anything like that. I am going to move on and forward with my life and keep going. Or supportive or like treat you like they’re obsessed with them.

I am on Kardashian level like with the glamour and the sexiness and confidence. Anyways, my number one fan and number one priority is me. People gonna talk and hate. The funnoiest thing is these people are so average and ugly and average like nothing special about them or that man. I am picky and stuck up nowadays and so bitchy but sweet and fake. I am a fabulous bitch. I don’t chase I attract. I don’t care about anyone’s feelings and put mine first. I am my first love. I am the love of my life. They make you feel like you’re not important and I hate people I truly do like I don’t care about their problems or issues or what anyone thinks of me. People are such dicks these days. They’re only out for themselves. I deserve luxury; expensive taste and expensive holidays and all the likes. I am a model and a IT girl. That bitch. 💯 A savage. Like Rihanna.

People are gonna stare and just look and do whatever. Let them look at me. Confident in my body, my looks, my personality, my weirdness, and all that. I own who I am.

BUILDING CONFIDENCE

What I love about myself

I’m skinny, I got abs, I’m funny, confident. sexually-confident, talented at singing, very smart, great music taste, nice pussy. I’m sassy, bold, natural long nails that look fake, thick natural eyebrows, outgoing, talented dancing, hilarious as fuck, powerful, naturally tanned, a goddess, on designer luxury level, on kardashian level, my big brown eyes, my long black hair, my long lashes, photogenic, my big natural lips.

I got so much potential and bitches be jealous. Guys that don’t like me blind, intimated by my confidence and beauty, or like weak men with no good taste.

The more love you show yourself the better. The more self-obsessed you are about yourself, the more beautiful you hgrow and the more you see it and get confifence and srlf-esteem.

I’m ETHNIC like i’m so stunning and gorgeous maa’shaa’allah ameen

I’m so feminine. I have high standards. I have such a nice set of teeth maa’shaa”allah white and straight!

I am very alluring and very irressistabkle. I get these guys on their knees literally. Be so sure of yourself!

I am a BAD bitch not a weak bitch

I demand attention in the room like focus on me

Some men can’t handle a sexy feisty women

A wild soul,

AFFIRMATIONS

BAD BITCH MINDSET

Be self-obsessed

Be a bitch

Take no shit

Be comfortable in your skin

You that bitch and make that clear

Don’t stress about who don’t like you like that

Don’t dare ever put yourself down

Don’t ever be male-obsessed.

Be a sassy bitch.

You are a sexy bitch. Don’t let no man or anyone put you down and make you think otherwise!

Remember, what you say makes you stronger and you end up believing it over time and it grows positive and more and more positive!

Don’t let anyone bruisw touyr confifedenc

Get your energy back!

Gotta shake yourself out of these moves by putting on positive music and getting angry at yourself for being mad and upset you have a choice

KNOW UR FUCKIN WORTH BABY GIRL!

BE YOUR BIGGEST FAN

YOU ARE POWERFUL FUCKIN OWN IT

Treat yourself as designer luxury brands. Remember, nobody can break your confidence in this way. Your like yves saint laurent, chanel, gucci, prada, etc like your not basic bitch like the ones you treat u any less.

STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE WHO DONT SEE THAT OR VALUE THAT OR APPRECIATE IT FUCK THEM N THEIR IGNORANT MISERABLE UGLY ASSES.

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How do I react if someone laughs at or mocks me?

I learned that:

1. It is only hurtful if we agree with them.
I used to get teased a whole lot for the size of my nose. Some class clown would make awfully funny jokes about it and the kids would reply with explosive laughter.

It was the producer of my constant rage and embarrassment on a daily basis.
I agreed with them. Maybe they’re right..

2. Nobody can touch a secure and confident person.
After the consumption of a few self-developmental books and positive articles, I became more confident and loving of myself.

I don’t agree with the jokes now.
I know I’m beautiful because of my imperfections now.

My nose is just the right size, and I got it from my father. I love my father; he is a fine-looking man and I’m glad we look alike!

Once I put this into perspective, I became secure and untouched with their shams. I didn’t really bother to care and they never teased me again since then. Huh.

I realized that nobody really mocks me. They’re just humorously joking and teasing in a blunt ignorant way, which doesn’t bother me at all.

I can now see that the ones who utter mean ‘jokes'(you can always tell which one’s which) are insecure people, which is sad. Their shams are the reflections of themselves. Sigh.

Now whenever someone laughs at me I only do one of these two things:

A. Give a witty self-defense reply.

With complete confidence that does not intend to hurt back. Or maybe do a comeback that is bitchy to silence them.

B. Laugh along.
There was this one time I accidentally burned my hair on a friend’s birthday dinner. SO EMBARRASSING. But I knew the trick by then.

“Hell, no. Over my dead body.”
I was the one who laughed the loudest at myself. Laughing at myself was so much fun!

Afterwards, everybody knew how chill I was and asked a lot about it. It turns out they were only curious:

“OMG! How did it feel getting your hair burned?”
“That is so cool. I thought it only happens in comedies. “

OTHER THINGS:

•  you cant stop people from mocking u but u can deal with how they treat you….

 

How to get over a guy

1. be happy
2. club music
3. dance like a whore
4. watch how to videos
5. get under another guy and talk to him
6. make him feel like shit
7. tell him u forgive him
8. be happy on social media
9. patch his messages and dont message back
10. leave him the fuck alone
11. if he dont care why should u
12. walk away – dont give into him
13. dont talk ever again
14. let him delete u first he wont…
15. hes toxic
16. focus on your career
17. you cant let him get away with his shitty behaviour
18. fuck history – life is gtoo short
19. move on
20. plenty more fish in the sea
21. let them go early
22. stay off social media for a while so u dont feel a need go post pics for him to see
23. mute him on snap and other things
24. closer to god
25. stop thinking about him
26. slag him – like his appearance and laugh at it
27. yoou are a pretty – the guy will come in due time
28. he dont reply then u dongt disturb him eveer again
29. know ur worth
30. hes bad toxic energy
31. pray to allah
32. pray him off you
33. boss up
34. bad bitch
35. start fighting – kickboxing and dancing and rapping
36. motivational videos online
37. exercise
38. sass up – lett him delete you. he aint gonna 90 per cent but if he does bye bitchass what a female wants u only tolerate n ugly bitches
39. let his mama deal with him – i aint responsible for him
40. if he angry let him be u still showed u were happy
41. become a bad bitch
42. do things to get him off your mind

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